On the rebound?
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
When I met my boyfriend of 4 weeks he was just getting out of a two year on and off again relationship with 23 year old, who cheated on him. Anyway he called me all the time and we talked for hours every day on the phone if we weren't able to see each other. I am going threw a divorce and he has been divorced for a year. We were looking at houses together and talking about marrying again in Hawaii. He would say how much he misses me and loves me. Then last week he broke our dinner plans at the last minute and it made me kinda mad to where he knew it. I haven't heard from him since. I tried to call him once, but he never returned my phone call. Do you think he is back with that younger girl? or does he need space? I don't know. Please help!
Thanks, Broken Heart
It sounds like he was going through a classic "rebound" situation. Breaking up with his girlfriend made him say and do things that he normally wouldn't do. For example talking about marriage after only 4 weeks of dating you.
It's hard to say whether he is back with the 23 yr old or if he needs space. At the very least, he is very rude to drop you without an explanation. If you are interested, keep phoning him until you can ask him.
The way he treated you, I would say good riddance!
Best of luck,
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com