Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been married for 2 years and I am very unhappy, my husband has a very foul mouth, he is very selfish and thinks only of himself, he refuses to help me with our three kids, he is obsessed with porn, well he has a friend that he has been friends with for years and he comes to our house alot he is single, well I am interested in him, and I kind of get the same feeling from him, but I am not for sure. It is the way he looks at me, like when we are talking and sometimes when we are not he looks me straight in the eye and smiles and I am usually the one to look away first and there has been a couple times that our eyes have met and I instantly felt something between us. But my question is, Do you think he feels the same and should I let him know how I feel, or Should I not pursue this, I am ready to leave my husband either way. But as far as this man is concerned I am not sure what to do about him. I want to tell him before he gets away.
I am sorry you find yourself in this situation.
The complexity of your situation suggests that you need to seek advice from a marriage counselor or family therapist. Go either with or without your husband. Do this as soon as possible since you don't want to lose a chance with this other man.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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