Should I forgive him?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I'll try to make it short.. I m 21 years old, and i dont live in the same country with my fiancee. He was invited to play football at the farm where all boys go there, he thought that there will only be boys.. so he went and found alot of girls it was like a pickinck..well all of his friends disappeared so he stayed alone with a girl. They were talkin about general things and suddenly she started talked about sex and specific parts of men's body..She asked him if he has a g/f does he sleeps with me & why doesnt he just sleep with other girls!!
he told her he would never wanna sleep with other girls!!
she told him that she was ready to do it right now: so she took off her clothes and kissed him she touched all his body and even took his clothes off, even though she made him horny he did not had sex with her and stopped her right away..Right after that he called crying and told me about everything he really feels very guilty for what he did & I really feel it too..
I really feel kinda cheated on..coz he could walk away when she started talkin about sex!!
I dont know what to do, i alwayz think about it.. i really wanna get it out of my head..Shall I forgive him??
My advice is to forgive him and try to get back the trust you had for him. That might not be as hard as it sounds-- he was tempted beyond what most men could resist and still was true to you. And, he was truly remorseful about what he had done.
Yes, he shouldn't have gotten into that situation, but we all make mistakes in our lives. If you still care for him, work at trusting him again.
Best wishes to you,
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com