Married but can't get guy off my mind
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been friends with this guy for over 10 years... he is my true love.. i feel ith him the minute i saw him, unfortunately things didn't turn out to be that way i wanted it to be. Now he is married and so am i. i love my husband alot but now i also feel that that I love my friend alot more and i think about him so much. i can never get him off my mind... he came to visit me at work one day and he kissed me and it felt so right; is this wrong? should i stop talking to him because now i am married? he wants to spend day with him just to cuddle and sunggle with him... what should i do?
My advice is to recognize that cuddling and snuggling will probably lead directly to divorce for one or both of you. You cannot get away with an affair for very long. Is it worth the pain and hardship that divorce causes to satisfy this feeling you have? Only you can decide for yourself.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com