Too shy to dance

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi, well the other day I went to a dance and everyone was dancing not like slow dance like to up-beat songs and i felt really shy to dance. All of my friends were dancing with each other and everyone was just really comfortable and i felt so uncomfortable just walking around. I wouldnt really consider myself that shy of a person i have no problems talking to others but i felt really shy about that. Do you have any advice on outgrowing the shyness and be more confident with myself Advice
There are several answers to overcoming shyness. First, realize that everyone is shy the first time. Look around the dance floor and you will see other kids who are also too shy to dance. Second, remember that you are out there to have fun. There is an old saying "Dance like nobody is looking." Third, practise at home or with friends and then be brave and get on the dance floor. You will soon be dancing along with everyone.

Good luck,

-- from George
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