Fell for an older guy



Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
theres this guy that i got close to. this summer was really hard for both of us and we were there for eachother.
we would always hang out almost everywhere we went we would go with eachother. even on just walks. we went on walks almost every night. he said he liked me alot. everytime i would see him and talk to him it was like my heart would jump to the sky if it could or something. i was so happy around him. and he was there for me through the toughest times of my life. now i moved and my parents dont really like him for some reason. i miss him alot. i even go on walks hoping ill run in to him. i was so confortable with him. felt like we really clicked and we really connected in some way. if that makes any since. i know its weird but i think im inlove with him. we get along so well its unbelievable. and we really clicked. he would always talk to me about his problems. he even cried infront of me once. at first he said he was so depressed he couldnt even cry. i hugged him and he just cried. i hope he misses me too. he said he would. he said he likes me alot and he likes our quiet moments and said they were some of the best times of his life and talking to me is like a breath of fresh air. that really touched me. i feel the same way. i wish he could be back in my life. i miss him so much. i was so happy around him. i kinda felt like we were meant to be or something. i dont think ill ever get over him. im planning on finding him and being with him when im an adult and am on my own. hes all i ever dreamed of. what should i do. just wait? how do you know if someone is your soulmate?




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You neglected to mention that you are 13 and he is an adult. My advice is the same as the last time. You should not be involved with an adult. Please do not try to find him, you will find someone your own age soon enough. I know this is difficult advice to accept, but it is the best advice I have.

Best wishes to you,
George

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