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Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I'm 13 & in 8th grade. I asked a girl for a kiss and she said "wait a little while for that" We hug goodbye (we haven't done any form of kissing yet) So are we friends or girlfriend/boyfriend. I didn't scare her off with that question (i'm sure of that). And also i need more conversation topics besides the traditional "hi how are you" stuff. & What do i say once the "hi how are you" is done. Because there is always pauses and silences in our conversations. Advice
Sounds like you are right at the edge of being friends and boy/girl friends. Next time you hug goodbye, give her a kiss on the cheek and see what happens.

As far as conversation goes, ask how her family is and get specific. Everyone knows their own family and can talk about it. Talk about your family too. If nothing else, talk about feelings if you are comfortable doing it. Talk about school, friends, sports, hobbies. She will be as happy as you are to have something to talk about.

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