He dumped me and now hes calling
Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
My boyfriend of 10 months told me two weeks ago that he doesnt love me but cares. He wants to remain friends. After reading several responses to emails here I stopped calling and in one day he called me 8 times. My question is: He is calling to help me with a house project. My not answering is abviously aggitating him as he called all day long and asked where I was and to call back. So, now what do I do? Call him back? Wait? He is the kind of person who wants what he wants when he wants it. I do love him very much and I want him to come back. But, only if he comes back because he relizes he loves me and wont take off every time the going get real.
Sounds like your boyfriend has had a change of heart. Find out where he is coming from. Does he want you back or what?
Since you love him, my advice is to take him back if that is what he wants. There are often ups and downs in most love affairs and that may be what is happening here. You probably have made your point with him by not answering his phone calls.
-- from George
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