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Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i am 20 years old girl and i'm at a Technikon.
i have known this guy for a year.i got to know him through my friend.

He pays me visits and he would insist that i help him with his assignments.
He once came and take a nap at my room. whenever he visits he's always giggles or laughs at what i say for no apparent reason even if what isay is not funny.
he would go on looking at my pictures and give me compliments indirectly.
He talks to me in that friendly tone and i think he respects me.

Then one day we were just hving a normal conversation and out of the blue he asked if i was dating anyone, i told him i was not dating anyone. He asked when i last dated anyone. then i told him i don't know and that i have a short( i said this beacuse i've never dated anyone before and i wouldn't tell him that because it's an embarassment.)

After his questions i asked why he was asking me all those questions then he said he" is interested".
After he told me that he changed the subject to something else.
When we departed he opened his arms and igot the feeling he wanted a hug from me.i gave it to him.


Why did he have to change the subject all of a sudden?was it something i said that turned him down?
Do you think this guy is really interested or was he just playing with my feelings? Was this too soon for him to tell me, cause normally i hear people saying that guys would take them out and spend a lot of time out efore they tell them they are interested.

Please advice me on this one I'm kind of like confused if i have feelings for him , because whenever he comes to visit i don't want him to leave and when i don't see him in week i just miss him and i would be waiting for him to visit again.

Your advice is highly appreciated...










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It certainly sounds like he is interested in you. And you seem to be interested in him. He is probably nervous because he laughs when things are not funny. My guess is that he asked you the questions about dating because he wants to date you. Since you like him, next time he shows up, ask him if he is dating etc.

If you want to, give him a call and tell him you miss him and ask him to come visit if he has time. Develop your friendship and see how things turn out. And, when he is getting ready to leave, make sure he knows that you wish he didnd't have to.

I hope things turn out good for you,
George

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