I think I am in love
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I need serious help! Ok there is this guy. I really really like him. I don't know how to tell him. I don't know how he feels about me. I know it might be just because I am 14 that I think I am in love. But I'm not sure. I mean c'mon, think about him 24/7 all my passwords are his name, I write poems about him. I keep pictures of him everywhere. I mean he knows I like him. But does he know how I feel? I am gonna see him at a football game this Friday.Tell me...what should I say to him?
One thing you don't want to do is to blurt out that you love him. That could upset him if he isn't ready. If you think he is ready, say something like "I am really fond of you, you know?"
But I advise caution here. Take it easy, your feelings will naturally express themselves to him and he will get the message. Only you can really tell whether he is ready to hear about your feelings.
Trying to do this at a football game sounds rather hectic, but if that is your best opportunity, I guess you have no choice.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com