Wants girlfriend back
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi there, Ok well, My ex g/f and I dated for about 8 months on and off. But we've been broken up for almost 6 months. Her mom did not like us being together and is threatening her with if she finds out we are even friends then she will send her back to Mexico. So we secretly broke up but it went down hill from that. I broke up with her for a stupid jealous reason and now I want her back. She says she stills loves me but doesn't want to be with me. She said that there is probably a chance for us to be together again in the future. We get into little arguements for stupid little things. She's mainly focused on her band and school and pays little attention to me. We've talked a few time were we didn't argue. She then says she doesn't trust me anymore cause I never earned her trust and that we were starting over and to build from there, but I want her now. I don't know what to do and I'm so emotional and it's hard to not just break down and cry. The feelings are just too intense. I would really appreciate your help.
All I can say is you have a mountain to climb. The biggest problem is the girl's mother who is opposed to your even being friends. Another problem is that the girl herself is not in favor of getting together. And, finally, when you are together you argue much of the time.
My best advice is to give this situation more time to improve. The outlook is not bright right now, but it could get better. Meanwhile, look for other girls to become friends with because that will make you feel much better.
Sorry you are in this predicament and hope you can find a way to make yourself happy.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com