The other guy
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hay help me I'm in this relationship with a 14 yrs old and I'M only 16 yrs old we only see eachother on the weekends but we go to different schools but we talk on the phone every day she says she loves me but she told me this guy that she liked seance like 1st grade asked her out she told me that she said no to him but other people from her school tells me that they have seen her and this guy together and she told me that she likes him but she wont brake up with me for him cus she don't want to brake my heart I'M so confused what do i do please help me what do i do
Sounds to me like you have nothing much to worry about. She says she loves you and wouldn't break up with you. She refused to go out with the other guy. But you are worried because the rumor-mill says she has been seen with him. So what? She is his friend, so of course they will be together sometimes.
Just play it cool and don't complain about the other guy or she may feel fenced in by your jealosy.
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