Want to move in together
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Myself and my fiance are both 20, we really (and i mean really) want to move out with each other (we both live with his mam), for the past year we have been wondering what way we want to do it eg rent, build, buy etc... anyways both of our families know we are moving in together but what i want to know is will this hurt our relationship, i saw on problem mags that moving in together is a bad idea, is this really true, do people really change all that much, i know its going to be a struggle for awhile but we both have full time jobs and we have been to a mortgage company to have a look and ask some questions, also we are saving and paying off his loan before we take the plung ,so to speak.
I know we want to move and i cant wait!!! but why am i listening to other people who keep putting us down saying we are too young, these people by the way are the people who said we wouldnt stay together and that its just lust, i love him so much and vice-versa but whats up with me , i dont care i just want to be happy.
am i answering my own question?
If not can you please shed some light for me?
It sounds like you both have sound heads on your shoulders and have done your homework. Since you have been together for a year already, I would support your idea. Another reason to support moving in is the fact that you have already been living together for a while.
I might recommend that you rent at first since if you do have a break-up, there won't be the problem of property to divide. I know this probably sounds impossible to you now, but it happens.
Best of luck to you,
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com