Age difference causes troubles
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I am 18 my b\f is 15....lol he acts so much older and i act so much younger... but anyways.....he lives in ohio and i live in tennessee....we met in ohio where i have lots of family....we've been going out for about a year now... well this girl sent me an instant message saying that she and him had sex and she got my screen name off of his buddy list..... i told him the next day what she had said to me and he said he hasnt did it with anybody....but he has a cousin that doesnt like me for some reason and he told me to watch out for who i talk to online because his cousin MIGHT mess with me....i dont what what the truth is...we are sooo much in love but cant really be together because his whole family hates me just because im 18...i just turned 18 though...so we dont see each other much at all...only when i come up there to visit my family.....im not allowed to go to his house because they will report me for child molestation is what they told me...his dad cusses me out every time i try to call his house...im soo sad what should i do???
First off, I would believe him regarding his cousin. It seems that you are unpopular with his family in general and a mean cousin could play tricks on you.
As far as the age difference is concerned... I'm sorry you are in this situation which is a very difficult one. Probably the only good solution is to wait until he is older before trying to get closer to him.
Better yet, and you probably don't want to hear this, find yourself a new boyfriend in Tennessee and you can have someone nearby whose parents don't dislike you.
My best wishes to you,
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com