Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
everything was PERFECT until now, she liked me i loved her we talked alot but know whenever i IM her she doesn't respond whenever i try to talk she doesen't respond (maybe she doesen't here me) but when we do talk there is always akward silences and she's not open and she NEVER trys to talk to me i always have to start. whats going on it's been nice, shes my first girlfriend and it was fun but i don't know what happened and i don't know how to find out.
I am so sorry you lost your first love. Be assured that more will come along before you know it. The only way to find out what happened is to ask her. She may not have a good answer, since she may not fully understand herself what happened. But, give her a chance to explain. The best way would be on the phone.
Don't let one bad experience get you down. These things happen to almost everyone and yet we all manage to survive the bad feelings.
-- from George
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