500 miles away
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Hello, I Like this girl i fell like iam just in heaven when iam around her.
Iam moveing in 3 months.Iam haveing to move almost 500 miles away. Should I just be her friend or should i date her. I mean I realy realy like her I never felt this way about anyone.I dotn want to hurt her but i dont want to be like i wish i asked her . what should i do?????
we both are very shy
The answer is up to you. If you want to date her, ask her out and be sure to tell her you are moving away in three months. Then the ball will be in her court to decide whether she wants to date for just three months.
The other approach is to remain friends. This will reduce the suffering you will feel when you move.
It sounds like you are inclined to ask her out, and I would advise that you follow your instincts. Since you are both so shy, and if you are afraid to ask her in person, consider slipping her a note telling her how you feel and asking if she would like to go out.
Here are some tips on dating friends: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/4
I wish you the best,
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com