Will a haircut help?
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I'm now currently going on my second month since my breakup. I've still remained friends with my ex with only one really heated discussion (a talk about dating others, which neither of us has yet). We go out occasionally. A while ago I mentioned about cutting my hair, which is pretty long, and giving it to "locks of love". Since our break-up I really dont feel secure about cutting it. Well, last night we went out and she had mentioned about it and that I'd look pretty good with a cut. Do you think doing this would help me win her over? Of course I still love her and would do anything for her. Would this be a foolish decision, like seeming desperate. Are there any other good tips for winning back her heart?
I think getting your haircut would show her that you respect her opinion. It might even help win her back. You two seem to be getting along rather well and this could make it better.
Other ideas include helping her out as much as you can where she needs help. Also continue communicating as much as is reasonable-- this includes going out together.
Have you told her you still love her? You should consider whether telling her might help your situation or not. I can't advise on this.
Consider yourself better off than others whose ex's refuse to talk to them. You, at least, have a reasonable talking relationship with your ex. Take advantage of that as much as you can.
Hope some of these ideas are helpful. Breaking up is very stressful, but you do have the chance of making up.
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