Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Im 26 years old and my bf is 23 years old. He's very sweet. We met last month and he knows my county. He bought me lunch. Took me shopping, and got to meet my mom and my niece. When we first met, he bought me a dozen of red roses. He's a very sweet guy and yea I guess he's shy. Cause it took him about an hour and a half to sit with me on the couch to watch a movie with me. Well later on while he was sitting on the couch we were cuddling. He kissed me on the forhead. Well he was staying with me for 3 days. The second day he took me to lunch to which was public. He bought me lunch, took me shopping to which we were gone for 4 hours. On the way back home he would put his hand on my leg as in giving me a hint like we have known each other for a long time or something. Well my niece was coming in to stay with me after school. So she more and likely got to meet him. He was very sweet and he bought her a subway sandwhich bought me one too. WE all ate outside on the patio of my apartment.
We talked and we talked and we went to the arcade to shoot pool. I told my niece that I really like him alot and I dont want to do anything to hurt what we have now.He listens to what I have to say. He keeps telling me that Im a good person and would help anyone who needs help and that I wouldn't hurt a soul. Well it turns out that we talk on the phone alot and were gonna give it a try. He also keeps telling me that wether or not if anything happens in our relationship that he still wants to come over and visit me and by my best friend. He also tells me that he wants me to let him come into my life.
Well the thing is this is what he told me in e-mail.....
hes saying that hes glad that i feel that way about him and that its gonna take him a long time for that to happen if someone is the person that i want to spend the rest of my life with. I hope me saying this does effect our relationship.
What do you think that means?
It sounds like you have found a very nice guy and have made good progress in getting to know him in such a very short time. The best way to find out what he meant by emailing you is to simply ask him to explain further. To me he seems to be saying that he is not a fast operator and it will take him time to be sure how much he cares for you. I would imagine you feel the same way about him.
Both of you obviously care a lot for each other. I wouldn't worry too much about one part of an email that sounds awkward. As I said, just ask him to explain what he meant.
-- from George
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