Things Feel Wrong after Sexual Play
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Last night my friend fingered me.Ive been fingered before and even had sex but Ive never got off. Last night Im pretty sure I got off...like 10 times, and it started to hurt after a couple of times. Im not 100% that was an orgasm though. After he left i went to the bathroom and there was a tiny bit of blood, just a couple of drops though. Today Im sore and it has this itchy kind of feeling. i thought maybe his fingernails scratched me or something but i know they didnt cause they are really short and its my clit so he wouldnt have been sticking his fingers in me there. Does this usually happen or is something wrong?
Any time there is pain and blood you should talk to someone in your physical location to look into it. You could have gotten an infection if his hands were dirty. It might be nothing, it might be something you want to take care of right away. There's no way to guess without a real, trained nurse or doctor taking a look.
Also ANY time things start to hurt you should let your partner know and stop it. If you just keep going because you don't want to hurt his feelings, you can cause yourself some serious harm. Not only that, but if you're uncomfortable saying "stop" then you should NOT be having sex yet. It is THE most important thing you need to be able to do.
It's one thing if you're feeling pain on purpose, like pinching your arm, because you enjoy that. It's quite another thing to hurt INSIDE You and to just brush it off.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com