How to keep boyfriend
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
This guy that I had known for little while came across to be a very cool guy. All along I had a thought in the back of my head that his extraordinary character had to be too good to be true. He always asked me to go out with him and i never did. It just so happened that one night I was one his block, so i rang his bell. I went into his house and it was in darkness. He said that he had a problem with the electricity in his building. That should of been the first clue for me to leave I didn't. Of course he came on to me and at first I was reluctant, he began to undress me and penetrated me, then i realized that I couldn't hurt my boyfriend. But it was already too late. I shouldnt have been there in the first place. I wanted to tell him. But i couldnt get the guts to. He found out. It happened 3 weeks ago. He is terribly hurt and upset with me. He has hurt me many times before and I've always been passive and gave him chances because I love him so much. But he says that this has crossed the line. He says he still loves me, but he doesn't know if it'll work out. But i'll do anything to make this work. What should I do?
The answer is not simple. It involves open communication and complete honesty. Express how sorry you are every chance you get and allow your boyfriend the opportunity to express himself and each time reassure him that it was a one-time mistake that will never happen again.
At the same time, try to work your way back to a normal relationship with him... doing the fun things you used to do. This will help him ease himself back to you.
None of this is guaranteed to work, but he will be impressed if you make a strong effort to fix things.
Also, read our tips on cheating at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveSCat/56922
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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