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Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Well see the thing is... I'm cheating on my adorable wonderful boyfriend who I love so much. The person I'm cheating on I was just fascinated by because he seemed so much like my other friend, "J". Well, I don't exactly understand what was going on in my mind when I asked him out cuz I know how I feel towards my boyfriend but I think I was thinking something like "at this school the only way to get to know someone is to either like them or be involved". I have this painful feeling in the pit of my stomach ever since I did it and I can barely keep my food down. I love my boyfriend so much... I don't even feel anything towards the other guy. I just wish I never asked him the question. How do I break it off with the other guy? I am NOT going to tell my boyfriend for a few years so I can't be persuaded to do that. I know I'll feel guilt but I refuse to do anything about it for a few years. But how do I leave the guy I just asked out yesterday? Tell me and I'll do it instantly. I don't even like him! I don't even KNOW him!




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The answer to your question is to simply be honest with the new guy. Tell him it was a mistake, that you have a boyfriend, and you are sorry. It will come as a surprise to him, but if you are completely honest he will understand.

The bad feelings you have will be reduced by telling the new guy, and as time passes you will hopefully accept that you are not perfect and capable of making a mistake like anyone else.

Best wishes,
George

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