Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi. I moved to a new town in grade 11, but finished high school in my old school. This past year I returned home to this town where i didnt know anyone. I got a job working for the town, and finnally met a bunch of local people my age. I really like one of the guys from work, and tried to get our supervisor to let us work together as much as possible.
When I found out he had a second job at the bar, I made a point of going there quite often, but only when I knew he be there. Im probably not great at flirting, but i did my best. A few of his friends worked with us at the town, and a for a few days they would whistle at me as the drove by, or walked by in the shop.
On my last day of work, we bought a case of beer, and I had a drink with all the employees in the shop, making a special point to enclude him, and he made a point of sitting next to me. That night and the next was the town fair, and he made sure i would be going. I went with my brother, as he was meeting friends there too, and when I finally found this guy i like in the beer gardens, I went off talking with him. A few of his other friends interupted our conversation, and dragged him off the the washroom, but he came back to get a pictuer of the two of us together. He then made a point of inviting me to the bar he works at, giving me a special pass to get in if it was full. I couldnt go that night but promised the next.
THe next night at the fair we talked for a while, and he asked for my phone number, and made me promise to go to the bar. He also said he might come and visit me on his way through to Torontoeven though I now live 12hrs diving distance from him now. I got his nimbers as well, and met him at the bar about half an hour later. We talked and i flirted with him the best i know how.
I was supposed to leave for school monday morning and this was saturday night, so he had me promise to stop at work on monday before i left. I had to think of an excuse to go so the others wouldnt make seeing him awkward, so i took donuts. He made a point of sticking around 5 extra minutes after coffee to give me a hug and double check he got my number right. As I pulled out of town i passed him in the work truck and he yelled something to me, and gave me a radient smile.
We talk about once a week on the phone, and i would like to visit but its a 12hr drive from there to my school. Does he like me or am i just imagining that there is something there? I havent had much experience in relationships, and dont want to assume there is more to it than he thinks there is.
Confused in university
There should be nothing to be confused about... he really likes you and it seems that he likes you a lot. Keep on communicating with him as much as you can if you are interested in having the relationship blossom.
-- from George
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