Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Ok I have written to you before about me and my friend. We are really good friends but anytime we're together we act like a couple and he told me that we would be going out except he says he can't give me the attention he feels I derserve and I told him i didn't want to spend much time with him because i would get sick of him. well its been a month since i wrote you and you told me to give it time for the relationship to go on. well the other day he told me that we were seeing each other basically. and its been a month since i suppose you could say we've been seeing each other. should i continue this or end it?
I'd give it some more time unless you are unhappy about what is going on. If you are unhappy, explain it to your friend and see what reaction you get. Some people take a longer time to form a deeper relationship than others and perhaps your friend falls into that category.
If you want to decide right now, ask yourself whether you would be happer with him or without him.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com