Should I ask him to be my boyfriend

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
When i was younger me and my family has always came to Puerto Rico for vacation, and every time we came i always fell for this boy ("A") that lives across the street from my house. Now im 16 years old and we moved here (puerto rico) for good, and we became real good friends. Every night we talk until 12in the morning...i told him things i never told nobody and vice versa, we always flirting together playing go out together and we even go to each others churchs (we have different religion backgrounds). Now his best friend is in love with me and he told me about it like 1 month ago...i told "A" that i couldnt got with his best friend because i liked him ("A") since i could remember...alex really didnt say nothing he was a bit he is always playing with me even more and he be always sayin im his girlfriend playing around...but every time his friend comes he stops playing with me and stuff, he doesnt even talk to me...the problem is that i like "A" and im scared to ask him to be my u think he likes me too and he doesnt say nothin because of his friends feelings for me or he doesnt like me so confused...what should i do??? can you help?? Advice
He sounds confused between his friendship for you and the other guy who loves you. The only way to sort it out is to have a talk with "A" and get a clear mutual understanding of where you stand with each other. Explain to him that you care for him and not the other guy. It sounds like he is very attracted to you so I would hope that he would agree to be your boyfriend for real.

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