Breaking up again
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I asked you how to get my ex back and he asked me out before I could because he realized he needed me but I went ahead with my plan to get him back and he thanked me over and over, The other night he came over and we cuddled and whatched movies and two nights later he said it didn't feel right and basically did what i did to him and the next day he said he was so stupid for breaking up with me and asked me out again, and then i thought about it and told him we need more time and we should just be friends unless you think you're ready. He decided we should be friends and i just want to know if he's trying to make me feel like he did when i broke up with him or is he really confused and want to be single right now for whatever reason? He also said that he loves me and always wants to be there for me...it just feels weird to him that we only started talking three weeks before we went out again and that maybe we just need time. Is there hope for us in the future??
Given that you and he are still friends and talk with each other, why not ask your friend some questions that will help you figure out the answer? You must have a lot of questions for him. He seems willing to have a relationship but isn't sure. Ask why he is unsure. You also don't seem positive that getting closer is a good idea. My thinking is that if you decide that you want to be together again, he will go along with the idea.
I don't think he broke up with you to get even with you... he isn't acting like that in other ways.
Best of luck,
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