Boyfriend doesn't talk
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I have a boyfriend named "I". I'm only 15 and have had my heart broken so many times. We hardly every see each other but i love him heaps. He just went on a trip to Italy. When he got back I would ask him a question and he would answer with one word. I miss talking to him like we used too. He used to be so affectionate. Now its like he doesnt care. I hav ehad sex before and he doesnt know but thats what he likes to talk about. Us having sex. I dont know if he really likes me, if he's cheating on me or just using me for sex. What should i do and what sortof signs would help me find out how he really feels?
Sounds like he has one thing on his mind-- sex. He won't talk about other things except with a one word response. It seems like he wants to use you and doesn't care like he used to. Have a heart-to-heart chat on this subject and see if you can get him to talk openly about his feelings for you.
The signs to look for you asked about don't look to good. You don't see him very often, he doesn't talk except about sex, he is no longer affectionate. The signs are all there and they don't look to good, I am sorry to say.
My advice is to look very hard at this situation and make some hard choices if necessary.
-- from George
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