Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I had been dating this guy for a year and a half and we recently broke up but he wants to go back out with me. He is extremely jealous about everything. About a year ago a couple of guys have tried to kiss me and they succeeded for only about like a second.I told him about that so i wouldnt hide anything from him. BUt now his jealousy is way out of control. I just dont know what to do. He doesnt want to be jealous either but he doesnt know how to change. Please Help
If you are hesitant about restarting a relationship with this guy then you are a sensible person. Jealousy is a very destructive emotion and causes a lot of friction in a relationship. Almost everyone who is jealous does not want to be because it feels terrible.
If you want to get back together with him, be prepared for some rough times over the jealousy issue. Build up his self-confidence and tell him you love him as often as you can. Also, read our tips on jealousy at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23682
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com