Needs more time with girlfriend

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I have been dating my girlfriend for 2years now. Things have been up and down, as with any relationship. Recently its getting to the end of summer and she seems to be focusing on her friends more than me. Is it normal to spend more time apart than together? We both go back to school soon and I'm worried I will never see her and that this time will drive us apart. I'm doing my best to remain calm and give her the space she needs but I feel like I need some love in return from her. Is this to much to ask from her right now?
Thank you,

"J" Advice
You are right about needing more love right now. Have a gentle conversation with her explaining your feelings and ask her for more time together. Hopefully, she will realize how close school is and recognize your needs.

Have something specific in mind to do that you know she likes to do and see what happens. I hope that she will spend more time with you.

Best wishes,

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