Guy makes date then gets cold

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
well, there's this guy that i've been talking back and forth with for the past year. and for the past year we've been saying we should hang out and meet up. just recently we've been talking on the phone. and we were suppose to hang out (he's the one who asked me, and made the plans), and then 2 days before we were suppose to get together he started avoiding me and this is what happens everytime. but then right after he says "oh so when we gunna chill", i dont get it? there is definately an age difference he's 20 and im 17. but he is an amazing guy that i can see. but why does this keep happening? im so confused should i just stop trying to get together with this guy? i mean he's the one always asking me to get together but still i was so excited about getting together yesturday, and when he went out or whatever he did i was so hurt. what do i do? please help!!
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This sounds like an unusual guy and one you might be better off avoiding. He seems to be so unsympathetic to what emotions he is causing in you. Next time he asks you to hang out, ask him (in a non-threatening way) why he asks you to then acts cold.

My advice is to avoid him... if you lose him you haven't lost a lot. And if for some reason your new behavior makes him want you more then you may get a chance to see how he behaves once you get to hang out with him.

Good luck!

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