Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I've been involved with a guy for a awhile.We get along great,but,he has a big problem with jealousy.If I talk to another guy,he accuses me of wanting to go to bed with the guy!He usually goes on this "jealousy streak" whenever he's been drinking.When he realizes what he's done,he becomes very apologetic and loving.Aside from this,we have a lot of good times together.I have told my man many times that I LOVE him and ONLY him,but,he still has these insecurities.He is older than me,but,I've always enjoyed being with an older man.I love him very much(he loves me too.) and I don't want to lose him over this,but,I hate it when he acts like he doesn't trust me.Please help! Thanks
At your ages, jealousy is an ingrained behavior and a habit. It isn't something that is going to disappear easily. You two need to visit a
marriage counselor to see what a professional can do for you. It appears that you have done everything you can do to change his behavior... call in some reinforcements.
Best of wishes,
-- from George
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