Communication is the key

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I emailed you just yesterday, and I was reading over some things on this site, and it got me just a little bit confused with myself. Since my X is confused and doesn't know what he wants right now, he told me I shouldn't wait for him, but I don't know if he's just saying that to see if I really care about him, or just saying it so it doesn't hurt me if he doesn't decide on getting back together with me. I'm not sure if I should see other people or just keep waiting for him to show him how much I care.. Advice
You need to figure out how much you do care for him before trying to figure out anything else. The key to answering the questions you raised are through thorough communication with your ex. You are in a fortunate position to make the decision without too much to lose. You are also lucky that you can still talk with your ex. And, that is exactly what you should be doing a lot of.

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