She doesn't want to get together again
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
me and my girl were always on the verge of getting together and after 5 years of trying it happened we got together and lasted over a year and basically lived together. I was going through difficulties in life work, school, etc. it was all falling down, i was quick to snap over anything start arguements over dumb stuff and she got fed up, she said i need a break from her, so after a week we went to dinner had a nice time still acted like a couple and during that next week i asked her about getting back together and she said she needs time and doesnt know how long,so we messed around still and talked a couple times a week, so i went out of town she called me crying saying she cant do this no more and said she cant be with me right now and that a little part of me not changing was still in her and we couldnt get back together until that part left her, so we are still not together havent seen her in a month but she still calls three times a week, calls me late at night saying she is depressed but cant see me bc im different and she wants to be alone. I love her to death and want to be with her she says you know how i feel we just cant do this right now, she doesnt want to see other people that was stated for both of us, my mind doesnt know what to think! can you help me?
I feel sorry for your being in this situation. The thing you have going for you is that she continues to call you frequently when she is down. Be sure to give her all the support you can during these calls and don't be afraid to tell her that you still love her.
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Re-read your question carefully and look for some answers there, you are more perceptive about the nuances than anyone else can be. Be hopeful, be cheerful,
try to reduce the irritants that were in your relationship before.
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