He doesn't understand his feelings
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I still have many feelings for my X-boyfriend, and do belive that we are in love. I'm pretty sure he knows this, but he's too scared to realize it. I tell him how I feel alot, and he likes that, and he tells me that he really cares about me and likes me alot too, but he is afraid of hurting me again, but I always thought love was about taking risks? I found out the other day that he also likes someone else (one of his other X's) and that really hurt.. I talked to him about it and he said he was just really confused right now and didn't know what he wanted. I don't know what to do anymore. Should I still wait and be for him until he makes his decision, or should I move on for now?
Since he cares for you and his other X, he is naturally confused about his feelings for both of you. You need to decide for yourself whether you want him back or whether you will look for someone else. Read our tips on this topic at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/9
If you decide you want him back, keep open the communications you have and ask him how he feels often. This will help him focus on how he feels. And, since you are doing the asking, it is more likely that he will fall back in love with you.
Hope this helps some,
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com