Troublesome boyfriend

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 mounths now and he gave me a ring i always thought that he was the one for me and now i am thinking maybe not i am only 14years old and he asked me to marry him when we get out of school when we are 18 i have no idea what to do cause i reaelly love him but i am all of a sudden likeing alot of my friends that are guys and me and my boyfriend "T" are either never talking or mad at each other we have no classes together and like i said he gets mad at me if i try and be nice and talk to him what should i do?
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Fourteen is too early to be discussing marriage, your boyfriend is probably a little immature for bringing up that subject. If he brings marriage up again, you could tell him you aren't ready to discuss that yet. But I doubt if that subject will come up again because my advice is to break up with him.

This "boyfriend" doesn't sound like he knows what he is doing. He won't talk to you or if he does he gets mad. It sounds to me that you are ready to break up with him, and I suggest you follow your instincts. You are interested in other boys and it is very likely that your next boyfriend will be much nicer than this one.

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Good luck!

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