He doesn't want the baby
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I am 38 yrs old and 6 weeks pregnant. I have been with the father for 1.5 yrs. I had a misscarriage about 4 months ago and "J" was very cool about me keeping the baby.
This pregnancy really was an accident and now "J" is basically threatening me about the status of our relationship and what the future would entail if I keep the baby.
After the miscarriage I caught "J" cheating on me but we are working it out and everything is great. The relationship has never been better.
Either way I feel at this age it is immoral to even consider abortion. Joe and I have very good incomes and are almost 40 yrs old. He said it just doesnt feel right this time. I think he is immature and irresponsible.
Just looking for another opinion since I will not discuss my pregnancy with anyone.
Thanks for the great website!!!
I am not competent to answer this question, it is far too complex to discuss online. My advice is to get to a marriage counselor as fast as you can so you and "J" can come to terms with the baby. Planned Parenthood is another place to get assistance. If you have to go by yourself, do it.
Sorry not to be of more help,
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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Keep the baby
Children come first