Not enough time together?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I'm having a problem with my girlfriend of 2 years. It seems all she wants to do is hang out with her friends. She tells me she misses me and that reasurres me that she cares, but dont girls who care want to spend time with you, or at least call you (which she is doing less it seems). I've been trying to be more of a challenge by not clinging to her so much and calling her all the time, but I'm struggling. Is this just a phase she's going through where she needs her friends, and I'm freaking out over a little alone time. Or should I be worried when we go 3days without seeing eachother?
It sounds like you have figured this out for yourself and are taking the appropriate steps to keep a good relationship. If she is going through a phase where she needs more space, you are doing well not to cling to her. Make sure you give her the support she needs both for your relationship as well as her need for space. It's a hard line to walk, but since you care for her, I am sure you are figuring out how best to do it.
Three days apart is hard to deal with, but I wouldn't worry. If it gets to four or five days then I would definitely worry since you have been going out for two years and need time together.
Hang in there, I hope everything turns out all right!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com