Guy thinks of her as best friend, she wants more
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
hi, i came to this site before to see if i can have some of your advice. See im like best friends with this guy that i met and i've known him for like a year now. But now i think im starting to like him more than a friend and i thought he did as well. I know this because he gave me all the signs like taking me to the dance, hugging me all the time, leaning on me when watching movies, saying he wants to sleep in the same bed as me if he comes to my house, constantly flirting with me all the time, saying im a nice person and that i should stay that way, and many more.. i read a question thats similar to mine on this site that is if i should tell him i like him. You guys said yes and thats what i did. But it turned out that he said he only liked me as a sister and im a cool friend. But i dont get it. if he did and said all those things, how can he turn me down? Can you guys please help me on this because i really love him and care so much about him and im at such a young age, it scares me. Thank you, i really appreciate it. (sorry for making this too long..)
It seems you have a good thing going except the guy isn't ready for a romance yet. Stay connected with him and have as much fun as you can. Perhaps love will blossom in his heart too.
I wish you the best of luck,
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com