Getting my ex back
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
Its been about a month now since I've moved out of the house that me and my ex have bought together. She now lives there with her daughter (from a previous marriage). We were engaged to be married and both came from bad marriages. We're both in our mid thirties. We were together for a little over 2 years (after about 3 months we decided to move
in together, then we decided to plan a marriage, then we purchased a house). During the course of our relationship, things started winding down and even started getting on each others nerves (sometimes more than others). I had mentioned about moving out sometime after we got our house, but I think I was trying to get attention. Well, things started going sour and she stated that she didnt feel the same about me anymore so this time I did move out. I still keep in contact with her to do whatever may be needed done with the house or if I can help with watching her daughter (10 yr old). She says she still feels for me but cant seem to get back the "spark" of love she had for me before. We've
gotten together a few times and even shared a few laughs,
but she still doesnt seem to want me back. Is there a way to win back her heart? Will she ever come back or am I wasting my time? I've never felt this strongly about anyone before. I know that I didnt give 100 percent in the past but i'm willing to correct my mistakes. Is there any hope?
There is always hope when love is involved. Her reaction to you right now sounds pretty harsh, and that is what you need to work on. Try to remember the reasons you were attracted to each other and see if you can reintroduce some of the old feelings. Also think about what things caused you to part. Can you turn some of those things around so that you appear more attractive to her?
Helping around the house and helping with the 10 year old is very good and be sure to continue doing it.
Also, see our tips on winning back an ex at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/9
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com