He won't say he loves me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Helo there I've written this question two months ago and I'm begining to think that you never got it so here I go again.
I've been seeing this guy for about three years now however we have only been "girlfriend and boyfriend" for about six months before we broke up becuase he didn't want a girlfriend who partied all the time. And it's not like I drink every night. it bothered him when I went out on weekends with my friends. So we broke up but since then we have talked every day and seen eachother as much as possible. I don't care about titles because our relationship is perfect except for one thing. I love him and he can't say he loves me. he tells me he doesn't love me but he acts like he dose. He does everything for me, we are best friends, we are romantic all the time, we never fight and all out hobbies are the same. I tell him I want to marry him but he tells me that will never happen. So why doesn't he leave me alone?! How can I tell him what love is so he sees that is what we have. Or should I just give up before my heart gets broken even more.
This is a very difficult situation you are in. He acts like he loves you but won't say that he does. You get along great except for this. You are not sure whether to stay with him or to move on. My recommendation is to let things ride along and not expect him to say he loves you. He seems to have it in his mind that he is not ready for love, but perhaps he has trouble understanding what love is.
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