Getting him back the second time
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I had sent you an e-mail a couple of month earlier, in which I told you that I would like my ex back, which I recently saw again for the first time after a year.
You told me that the best way to ease myself back into his life, is to become his friend.
And it has worked so far. I went for dinner with my Ex a couple of times. Though now after the last date he told me that he "has twinches of the old feelings he had for me". He said that "I dont want to go out with you again, I just want to kiss you whenever I see you."
Now he does not want to see me again, because he does not think it a good idea to have feelings for me.
How can I convince him the better? Its not like he fell back into love with me again. He just wants to hook up with me.
But how can I make him want me back, if he does not let me see him?
You seem to have been sucessful in getting your ex back at least for a short time. This could mean that further effort on your part will get him to change his mind and want to see you again. Try phone calls or emails to maintain your contact with him. He could become attached to you again.
Your efforts may lead to disappointment, but you don't seem ready to give up yet, so why should you? Pleasant surprises sometimes await those who try.
And, you have the advantage of already knowing him well.
Best of luck!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com