Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi. I have some serious relationship issues right now. My boyfriend of 9 months and I just broke up. I loved him very much and he loved me the same but we had a lot of differences ex- age, family issues etc. My first boyfriend that I dated for a couple years but have been apart form for over a year has always semmed to interfere with my relationhsip after him. I love him and know that we would be a great match for the future and when I am with the guy I dated for 9 months I often think of him. But now the old boyfriend and I are trying to work things out and I feel like my heart is hurting because I miss the boyfriend of 9 months so badly. WHAT's WRONG HERE??????
Sounds like a big mixup here. Try to sort out your feelings for these two guys so you can keep one as a friend and the other as a lover. By maintaining contact with both of them, you can figure out which is which in your heart. It's obvious you care for both of them and only time will tell which one is closer to your needs.
-- from George
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