Telling Him I Like Him

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I met him about 4yrs. ago and we became good friends. I am a tom-boy so I didn't think anything of it. Well about 10 months after we met I moved again and we keep in contact and after 2 years I realized I had feelings for him. I am planning on going into the Marines after graduation and I told him. He didn't like it. I think he might feel the same.

I am no good with girly emotion but I believe I have grown to love him.

The Question is should I talk to him about it? And how do you say that to someone? This is the first thing since I met him I couldn't share with him or talk to him about. What should I do?

RomanceClass.com Advice
I have a whole set of instructions on going from friend to boyfriend-girlfriend here -

http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/friendlover.asp

you're right not to just blurt it out - that rarely works well. You have to *show* him how the feelings have changed. Go through the how to and you should be able to do it gently.

-- Lisa

-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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