Virginity and Bleeding
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Is it true that when you lose your virginity every girl bleeds?
See it's because when me and my ex-boyfriend has sex I didn't bleed and it was my first time is it because when I was younger I was raped.
We've actually answered this question on the site many times already :)
When you are a virgin you often have a thin membrane over your vagina to keep dirt out. Sort of like an eyelid covering an eye. So all that happens during that first sex incident is the membrane is ripped and no longer covers the vagina. Many girls have this happen long before sex by other activities like horseback riding or bike riding or so on. So some girls bleed during the first sex, some don't.
If you were raped before, someone already broke that membrane. That is why it wasn't there.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com