He Doesn't Like Kids
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I just started going out with a guy who is 3 years younger then me. He is 21 right now. Everything is great between us, but yesterday we had a very strange talk and he told me that he never wants to get married and have kids, and as the matter of fact he told me that he hates kids.
What was that all about. Is he afraid of commitment or he is too young? Please help.
You know, sometimes you just have to take what people say as the truth :) This guy doesn't like kids and doesn't want to marry. He's telling you that so you don't get up false hopes - and so if that is what YOU want that you are warned ahead of time. Lots of guys - and girls for that matter - simply don't want kids. Not everybody was meant to be a parent. Heck, I know lots of people who never marry because it's just not important to them either. Marriage really only matters if you want to have kids.
If kids are important to you, it's time to find a new guy.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com