I Cheated on my Boyfriend with his Brother
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 8 mounths. He decideds he is not going to call me and onley see me for about a week this how 3 mounths of summer brake. He has a brother which is my X. We snuck out together just to talk...we did a little more than that...thats all im ganna say. But i really like this guy and i like the other one to....
my boyfriend does not trust me or likes to do things (sexualy) Like I do....but his brother does. He is more my type but we both realy argreed he woulent fall in love. He told me he loved me tonight.
How do i fix this and what should i do?
One of the most important things you can possibly learn about life is that there are always choices you have to make and stand by. There will ALWAYS be temptations and guys who seem better in one way or another than your current boyfriend. Your responsibility as the girlfriend is to stick by your boyfriend, to show him respect. If you really want to leave him, then do. But don't cheat on him or disrespect him.
Sure, you are tempted. But is your responsibility to stand strong against temptations. You already are doing pretty badly at that - to the point of getting this brother to fall in love with you! Now you are going to hurt TWO guys because of the situation.
Make a choice. Or if you feel you're not ready to be able to be monogamous, then tell them BOTH that and stop dating. But it is incredibly unfair to tell someone you're going to be their girlfriend and then betray that person.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com