Strengthening our Bonds

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I was more of a carefree guy but not a spoilt brat until i reached class 9.i used to go for biology tutions to a woman. she also had a daughter by her side. now it so happened that all her positives matched up the girl i wanted. i assimilated them and i became closer to her family. it was due to her that i topped the state in arts faculty.

she visited me once a year but now has not done so for 2 years. i had given her a new year card this year and she called back. now i want to disclose my love and respect for her in a mature way. i just want to strengthen our bonds and make her aware of her place in life and seek her blessings for my entrance examination.

i have planned to get a photo of her inorder to overcome my lonliness and get these bonds moving in the right direction. Am i sensible since she loves me and this seems to be only possible solution for our happiness? should i delay or just go ahead and listen to my heart as i have always done! Advice
I have a TON of advice on the site about how to grow closer to someone, especially over long distance. Sure, a photo is a nice idea but there are simply hundreds of different ways to keep your relationship growing stronger and stronger. Don't just rely on a photo. Keep up daily correspondence, talk on the phone, and share your worlds. Long distance love can be a lot of work, but also can be quite worth it.

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