Levels of Intimacy
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hey....Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 3 years off and on. I love him with all my heart but I won't let him do anything to me besides little things. He will let me do anything to him.
I told him maybe it's just a phase we are going through. Should I stick with him or leave? Thanx for your time.
If you mean sexual things, then that is COMPLETELY fine. We all have phases we go through, that sometimes we're very cuddly and at other times we're not. It all comes down to what you personally feel comfortable with. And it should never involve pressure. If your boyfriend pressured you into things, that would be bad.
If you both love each other, then that's fine! Be happy with what you have together, and what you enjoy together. There's no reason to judge what you do against what anybody else does.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com