i like this guy...and i'm not sure if he likes me
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i like this guy...and i'm not sure if he likes me. we have a lot in common like music. we have a lot of fun around each other ....like when he asks me if i wanna go and do something with him. like one day we went bowling with his lil brother and my lil sister. well, there were these hot guys in the lane next to ours and well everytime i bowled good one hot guy would give me a high five. well when i went to go sit by the guy i like he pulled my chair closer to him. As if to say "hey, your not gonna take her away from me". after that we went to barnes and nobles and just sat there and read and talked to each other. i had the best time!!! but a few days later i went to his house and we were alone (nothing happened) but we were laying on the couch together and he puts his arm around me and kinda cuddles me. Also, i asked him what he thought of me as and he said... i think your cool.. but i wish that there was more stuff we could do...other than going to a movie or something. but after that he asked me to give him a hug before he left so i did.. and i let go..but he says...i didnt say stop. so i hugged him again. he came over later on that night and we sat by each other and started holding hands. i think he likes me but i dont know if he's just playing with my mind. everyone i talk to about him says he doesnt do that. i wish he would just come out and say it. i dont know what i should do..as in...ask him if he likes me...or just keep it cool and play hard to get. Its sooo frustrating!!! please help me!!! i need to know.. sorry this is so long!!!
Everything you say in your letter says that yes he likes you. He's giving you all the right signs that he likes you and he doesn't need to write it in huge letters, it's all there for you to see. So tell him that you like him, and see what he says. Come up with a list of things that you want to do with him and then each time you see each other, do another item on your list. You'll have plenty to keep you busy and happy.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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