he never calls me and i dont know if i should tell him i like him
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i saw this guy i met on christmas day on the train and we got talking again and i got to know him really well and i started liking him heaps. but i didnt know if he liked me and i was too scared to ask. but one day my mom and his mom went to a aromatherapy party and got talking and i heard from my mom the next day that his mom said this. " oh he used to come home and talk about your daughter all week and we thought that he had a thing for her and then one day, he came home and said to me, mom, shes too old for me. and thats the last thing i heard". so even though i knew this, i still kept being friends with him hopeing one day hed change his mind. he lends me his stuff and he fixes my computer when i broke. but he never calls me and i dont know if i should tell him i like him, or keep it friends.... what do you think?
I think that you should think about talking with this guy to see where his head is. You can say, "you know, our moms were talking, and they were hatching this plan how you and I should go out. What do you think of that?" and see where he goes with it. You've nothing to lose. You also have a key piece of information that he thinks you're too old for him. So open a conversation by saying, "Some people think that I'm pretty old, but I feel so much younger than I am. I'd much rather go out with a young guy than some old fogey. What do you think, am I too old?" and see what he says.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com