How do i know its love

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
How do i know its love ? cus i like a lot of girls but i dont knwo if its love. or lust? or iam better off as friends Advice
I can tell you with certainty that if you're not dating for months and months, that it's not love. Love only happens after you have spent a significant amount of time with your partner and really understand who they are and what they want out of life.

You're nowhere near that.

You can be in lust, where you are only concerned with getting your hands on her skin.

You can be "in love", where you are driven crazy by the thought of her and you're always wanting to be with her and you're jealous of all the other guys that she talks with.

You can't love someone you just met. Ever.

Hope it helps,

-- from Jenn
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